Also I see this a lot If you live with your parents at 25 Like I know that's acceptable in some cultures, it definitely isn't acceptable in my culture (Dutch), nor is it acceptable to me as a person You should be leaving your parent's house at 18 and become independent, spread your wings and fly You'll never learn about the real world if you get pampered by mom and dad with free rent and free food So the reason you're not successful is, is maybe this, there's absolutely no incentive for you to become succesful, there's no urgency, you're just satisfied being complacent living in your parent's house Get out and spread your wings IMHO